it's Not Me, it's You
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WHY I DO THIS

 

During my recovery, I returned to the only career I knew — technology. Over the next decade, I rose through the ranks: leadership roles, bigger titles, financial success. On paper, everything was thriving — career, family, finances.

But I was empty. Uninspired. I couldn’t shake the feeling that something vital was missing.


That discomfort led me inward. Through meditation and contemplative practices, I began asking hard questions:
What if everything I’ve worked for is leading me away from my purpose? What is my purpose?


Those questions were terrifying. My identity was built around my success. But when I looked closer at the moments that made me feel truly alive, they always centered around something else:
Honest connection. Small group conversations. Helping people who were struggling with something deeper than surface-level success.


That’s when coaching found me — and I began to define who I really am.

WHO AM I

 

  • Father of a modern teenager
     
  • Husband to a medical professional
     
  • Son • Big Brother • Pet Rescuer
     
  • Technologist & Seeker
     
  • Nature Lover & Mountain Biker
     
  • Friend • Introvert • Gamer
     
  • Digital Musician • Lyricist • Poet
     
  • Addiction Survivor
     
  • Lifetime ADHD Navigator
     
  • And — last but not least — Life Coach
     

Despite all the roles we play, something deeper runs through it all — something more mysterious.
To spend a lifetime walking the path of purpose… that’s the real adventure.
 

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WHO I WORK WITH

 I work with people who are ready to take ownership of their lives — not just to fix what's broken, but to uncover what’s true.

Many of my clients come to me after a major shift or awakening:
They’ve survived addiction, left a toxic job, reached a breaking point in their relationships, or simply looked around at their life and thought, “Is this it?”

They’re not looking for surface-level advice or another productivity hack. They want meaning. They want movement. They want to trust themselves again.

Whether you're in recovery, rebuilding after burnout, untangling your identity from old roles, or simply feeling the pull toward something deeper — I work with those who are willing to look inward and ready to move forward.

You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to be open, honest, and willing to do the work.


Thriving with ADHD

Thriving in Addiction Recovery

Career and Purpose Alignment

Building a powerful, fulfilling Spiritual Practice

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Frequently Asked Questions

Please contact us if you cannot find an answer to your question.

We'll meet for a free introduction session to explore your "why" for coaching. My goal is to provide a glimpse of what working together will look like while helping you unearth your goal(s). 


From there, we decide if we want to move forward together. There's no pressure. I prefer we both be a resounding "yes" over anything half-hearted


Yes. What happens in session stays in session.


The only cause for breech of confidentiality are threats of harm to oneself or another.


Results occur at the crossroads of commitment, hard work, and a willingness to shed old ideas.


I require a minimum 90 day commitment and meet no less than 3 times per month.


This keeps the work fresh and momentum going.


If you haven't picked this up by now, coaching is all about you. Yes, I am a guide, a sherpa of sorts. That said, you already have every single thing you need to live the life you came here to live. You have all the answers, you know where you want to go and I just help reflect this back to you. As you trial and error your way to new experiences with your capabilities, your sentiment towards you will change; based on first-hand experience. 


So, this coaching thing, this creating the life you came to have and share.... "It's not me, it's you"


IT'S NOT ME, IT'S YOU

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